Interview with author Josie Brown + Giveaway

I recently had the chance to interview Josie Brown, author of The Secret Lives of Husbands and Wives. This is one of the books I read for my 50 in 2010 challenge. I enjoyed the story very much. You can find my quick review here. At the end of the interview you'll see how to enter the giveaway for a copy of The Secret Lives of Husbands and Wives.

The Secret Lives of Husbands and Wives book cover1. Did you always want to be a writer?
I loved to watch Perry Mason reruns, so it was either that, or a lawyer...

In truth, though, somewhere deep down inside, yes, that was the case. I was always an avid reader (which is why I was wearing glasses at seven).
However, it was the day I brought my firstborn home from the hospital, that it hit me: you're a wife and you're now a mom. But what else defines you? That's when I sat down at my computer keyboard and began what I hoped would be my first novel. And yet, it took my fifteen years to write my first book proposal. By then I'd had a career in advertising and in journalism, which allowed me to right my first non-fiction book. That attracted my first literary agent, who was open to pitching my fiction proposal on TRUE HOLLYWOOD LIES. That book went to auction (three publishers wanted it) and that was the start of a new definition of "me."

2. What is your writing process like?

For me, a premise for a story can come from anywhere In fact, the novel being released in April--The Baby Planner--came to me while I was sitting in the reception area of my physician's mammography center. I flipped open a magazine and read about this interesting job some women have created for themselves, in which they take on the responsibility of helping their time-stressed pregnant clients prepare for the births of their babies: things like shopping for baby gear, baby-proofing their homes. planning the baby shower. I thought to myself: "Wow, now THERE's a book!" My editor loved the concept, and a book was birthed.

Once I have a concept, I then do a working outline. I start with a lot of "what ifs" that become plot turns. For example, in SECRET LIVES OF HUSBANDS AND WIVES, the what ifs were: "What if a nasty divorce made a Master-of-the-Universe hubby change course and fight for the kids, the house, the dog--the life that he's worked so hard to support for himself and his family?" And "How can such a divorce affect those who are on the outside looking in, like the neighbors?"

Every book as a beginning, a middle and an end. Usually what happens is that people will have the premise (beginning) and maybe figure out the end. But it's the middle--those 300 or so pages--that is the sticking point. For me, outlines help you move through the process more efficiently.


3. One thing I really liked about The Secret Lives of Husbands and Wives was how real Lyssa seemed. I really felt for her as I read the book. How do you come up with your characters and stories? Is any of it based on real life?

Thanks, Jenn, for saying that! It made my day!In fact, I received an email from someone who wrote that, as she read Lyssa describe the lack of passion her marriage, she felt as if hers was being described as well. Lyssa ending is not tragic, nor sweet, but bittersweet. I wish that could be the case in real life, but, alas, it rarely is such.As a journalist who deals with relationship trends and advice, I've been exposed to various marriage scenarios that aren't always happy ones. I try very hard to make my characters realistic--although you'll note that others in SECRET LIVES provide some comic relief. Believe it or not, even they are based on the actions of people I know personally, or (horror) stories I've heard about neighbors or "mean mommies."


4. Who are some of your favorite authors? Favorite books?

I love to read spy novels and mysteries. John Le Carre is my all-time fave spy novelist. Martin Cruz Smith has a great character in Arkady Renko, and his books are wonderful social commentaries on Russian society. I recently did a book event with Jane Smiley, Joshilyn Jackson, Tatjana Soli and Eileen Goudge, and have all their books, which share riveting plots and great characters with sublime turn-of-phrase. I've read everything Edith Wharton wrote. One of my favorite comedic novelists in Allison Pearson, who just came out with a new book, I THINK I LOVE YOU.

5. What are your favorite books to give – and get- as gifts?

HAHA! Ironically, I usually give non-fiction books as gifts. This year's holiday gift will be Lissa Rankin MD's, WHAT'S UP DOWN THERE, a great non-fiction book for women about...well you guessed it: everything you'd ever want to know about "down there!" It's not only informative, but funny, too! One year we gave Jon Stewart's AMERICA - THE BOOK. Another year it was LETTERS FROM A NUT. As you can see our taste runs to humor.

6. What book are you reading now?

I have SO MANY books on my bed stand! This month I've read ENEMY LOVER (Karin Harlow) and BACKSEAT SAINTS (Joshilyn Jackson) and would recommend both highly. The first is a balls-to-the-wall Special Ops paranormal romance, the second a humorous, heartfelt story about love, murder, and redemption.As soon as I finish THREE STATIONS (Martin Cruz Smith) I'll be starting I THINK I LOVE YOU (Allison Pearson) and then ONE IN A BLUE MOON (Eileen Goudge)

7. How do you like to spend time when you’re not writing?

I love hiking. If I don't do at least five miles a day, I don't feel whole.

8. Are you working on anything new right now? Do we have a new book to look forward to?

I just turned in THE BABY PLANNER. I'm working on EXTRA CURRICULAR, which is about a cheating scandal at a posh private school that has its roots in an infidelity that took place in the previous generation. Lots of sex and scandal!

9. Do you have any closing comments for your fans?

I appreciate each and every one of them! What drives me, daily, is the thought that I'm creating a riveting story with lots of compelling characters that will make you wish the book had never ended. I appreciate it when you know I've accomplished this goal. Just email me at mail@josiebrown.com

Jen, I invite your readers to go to my site -- http://www.josiebrown.com -- and read the excerpt of SECRET LIVES OF HUSBANDS AND WIVES. There they will also find some of my reviews. Everyone who posts a comment below regarding the review they liked the best will be entered in a contest in which I'm giving away a free copy of the book.
-- Josie Brown

Well, you got the challenge. Head to Josie's website and check out the excerpt. Leave a comment on this blog about your favorite review and be entered to win a copy of The Secret Lives of Husbands and Wives. The contest ends on November 8th. Make sure to enter with a valid email address so I can contact the winner!

Google celebrates John Lennon


Today Google is celebrating what would have been John Lennon's 70th birthday (the actual day is Saturday) on their main search page. The image above is what you see and when you click on it an animated video plays Imagine. After the video search results about John appear. It's all very neat!

Me and Marlo Thomas



Tonight I attended a books discussion/signing for Marlo Thomas' new book Growing Up Laughing.  I used to love watching re-runs of That Girl on Comedy Central when I was little.  It was also on tv paired up with Love American Style, but I don't think that was on Comedy Central... anyway.  Also, who didn't love her as Mrs. Green on Friends?  I was super excited when I saw that this event was happening.  Apparently the advertising wasn't that great because there was not too many people there.  Of course that is in comparison to when I saw Carol Burnett.  Both events took place at the Saban Theatre in Beverly Hills.  Tonight's event was moved from the theatre to the lobby.  I liked that they did that because it made the evening feel more intimate.

Unfortunately, since I just found out about the event last week, and had to finish MockingJay this weekend, I didn't get a chance to read the book before attending.  Marlo told some great stories.  Hopefully some of the gems are in the book.  Rabbi David Baron was the other half of the conversation and did a great job.  In the beginning he pointed out that not only was Marlo's childhood amazing since she grew up around comic legends and geniuses, but she appreciated the fact that these people were around.  Where as most teens would want to get out of the house and not deal with their parents' friends, Marlo knew it was special that she was able to spend time with these guys and wanted to hang around them as much as she could.

Not only does her book contain stories from her life it also has interviews with other comics.  I'm excited to read the interviews with Conan, Tina Fey, Chris Rock, Lily Tomlin, Jerry Seinfeld, and more.

One thing I really liked was just how positive she is. She said that she would always tell her funny family stories to friends and they told her she should write them down. It seemed that she hoped these stories would inspire and bring joy to others.

The fun evening was wrapped up by getting my copy of the book signed and a photo with Marlo.


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Marlo said she just started a new website. One of the features is Laugh of the Day. She gave a statistic (which I have forgotten) about how less adults laugh than kids do on a daily basis. She hopes this will give everyone at least one laugh a day.

Fall TV (so far)

Now that we are a couple of weeks into the new fall tv programming I thought I would share some my list of shows I'm watching and those that have fallen off the list.

Continuing Favorites (shows I love (or really like) that are back)

Desperate Housewives - One episode in and I feel like this this season is off to a great start.  Vanessa Williams is going to be a fun addition to the case.  And though I am sad to see Orson leave Bree, it seems like Bree will be going a little out of her regular zone this season.  I'm looking forward to a new episode tonight.

30 Rock - What can I say? 30 Rock is awesome.  You should be watching if you aren't.

How I Met Your Mother - My DVR decided not to tape the Monday of the season premiere.  I haven't caught up on it yet, but I did see the second episode and it was full of Barney fun. I think I saw that CBS now has full episodes online (finally!)... so hopefully I can catch the first ep of the season.

Glee - If you follow me on Twitter then you know that I mildly like Glee (ok I'm a bit obsessed and talk about it all the time).  The writing on the show lacks a bit, but overall I love it.  Each episode is fun and I love listening to the music while I'm at work.  My current favorite moment is from S2 E1 when Quinn and Santana are fighting and as the camera circles it stops at Brittany and she says, in a very deadpan way, "Stop the violence".  Every time I think about it I laugh.

Modern Family - It won the Emmy for best comedy this year and it was completely deserved.  This show makes my cry from laughter.  I'm sooo glad it's back.

The Office - I'm starting to waiver on this show (words I thought  I would never type).  I actually hoped this season would be the last because of Steve Carell's departure.  Last season the show was as good as it had been, but I love these characters so I'm staying with them.  So far I have enjoyed this season.

Cougartown - I think this is a good consistent show.  And they have already brought me a new "drinking" game... Movie Title mashup

It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia - I heart this show.  The first three episodes have been solid.  I can't get over Dee dancing with the air thinging... It. Cracks. Me. Up.

Chuck - Ok, I haven't watched any of this season yet. I had the same DVR problem as HIMYM and it was a blank recording for the season premiere.  I just need to get to NBC. com and watch it so I can see the second one that is on my DVR.

The Vampire Diaries - Since I don't have HBO I get my normal TV vamp fix from this show.  The first couple of episodes this season have been great.  I'm loving vamp Caroline.

Parenthood - Great cast and writing. They have some fun new plots this season.  Welcome back Bravermans!

The Big Bang Theory - Robot Sheldon was fantastic!  This show consistently makes me laugh! No wonder I bought 3 TBBT t-shirts at Comic Con.

New & New/Old Shows (shows that are new or just new to me)

The Middle - I had seen a few episodes of this show last season, but for some reason I didn't stick with it.  This is now becoming a favorite! *whispers* favorite

Community - I tried to watch this show when it started last season and just didn't get into it.  A lot people love it and I don't think it's bad... I just don't know if it's for me.  I started again this season and still am not really into it.

Raising Hope - I literally just watched the first two episodes and I'm in. Great cast and great writing.

Running Wilde - I have had a mad girl crush on Keri Russell since her MMC days.  That means that yes, I was one of the few Felicity watchers.  I also love Will Arnett so I want this to be a good show.  As I type I'm watching episode 2 and it's not getting me yet.  I'll give it a few more weeks.

Nikita - I have only seen episode one and have the rest on the DVR.  The first episode intrigued me so I plan on catching up... so we'll see.

No Ordinary Family - I just watched the pilot today and I really liked it.  I'm looking forward to the next episode.

Goodbye (shows that have been removed from the DVR)

Lone Star - I actually like the first episode, but once it got cancelled I took it off the DVR.  I thought "what's the point"?  I guess my thoughts on the show don't really matter since it's gone anyway.

My Generation - I didn't watch it, but deleted the 2 episodes that were taped after I read that it was taken off the schedule.

Hellcats - I tried to watch the first episode.  I stopped a bit of the ways through it. It seemed to forced for me.

Better with You - I love sitcoms and I wanted to like this, but it wasn't for me.  Knowing me I'll catch the reruns.

Outsourced - I work with call centers so I thought it might have a more personal touch, but it didn't hook me.

Life Unexpected - This show is still on the DVR, but it's almost off.  I really want to like this show, but the main characters just make themselves unlikable.  I really didn't enjoy the first episode... mainly because it was so predictable.  I guess it was really just setting up the new story lines.   The second episode was better and I'm hoping it keeps getting better.  I think my main problem is that Ryan is the only character I really like, but who doesn't love Jack McPhee?

So that's where I'm at with the fall season.  What do you agree or disagree with? Am I missing a show you think I should be watching?

New Kindle (said in Oprah voice)

I guess the title of this post is really appropriate since it's due to Oprah that I bought a Kindle in the first place.  Way back in 2008 I really wanted a Kindle, but the steep $300 price tag kept me away.  I somehow convinced my Mom she needed a Kindle too and we both longed for one.  Then one day when I was, inexplicably, watching Oprah she had an episode featuring one of her "favorite things" and it was the Kindle.  She gave out a a promo code for $50 off a Kindle. The promo code only had the life span of a few days so Mom and I broke down and each got one.  I LOVE my Kindle.  I haven't tried any other ebook readers, but with the selection and prices Amazon has I think it can't be beat. (Funny how I was happy to pay $250 and now it's only $189... oh the life of an early adopter) I even had a problem with the screen on my original device (the screen just went black one day) and a day later Amazon sent me a brand new device (still first generation).  The Kindle 2 and now Kindle 3 are a little smaller and have new features so I have been wanting to upgrade for awhile.  Here is a picture of the Kindle 1 and how big the buttons are to change the pages.  They are SUPER easy to press... which is very annoying.



So when I received a reward card for signing up for new cable service I decided to splurge.  This baby is on its way soon to me, hopefully.





I'm also really excited it's not white since my original Kindle gets dirty really easy.

I have plenty to read while I wait.  This weekend I am going to finish (if I say it like that I really hope it will come true) MockingJay



And this week I picked up Patti Lupone's memoir from the library.   This year has been about the memoirs/autobiographies for me....

Anyway I was so happy I thought I would share my news with the world... or just Chris who is the only person who I looks at this blog... and I'm sure that's just occasionally. ;p

***UPDATE***

I was able to find a Kindle at Best Buy... so I have it! WOOT!